Just how normal is normal?

via Daily Prompt: Substandard

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Looking at how our world is today, it seems hard to really be able to define what substandard is. There are as many differences in us all as there are crayon colors and we are all going to have our own opinions about everything. You cannot define substandard unless you know what the standard is. So what do you consider standard in dating, for example? If you ask the person sitting next you, their answer will probably not be the same as yours. As a matter of fact, you can have a room full of people and probably will have just as many different “standards”. Because we have different upbringings and different experiences in our lives, we are going to have different standards, therefore there will be a different substandard.

To me, substandard is what I have decided not to accept in my life. With all of the things that I have been through, I just want to work toward having a fulfilling life. While going for what I want for me and my family, when I see people, things, and experiences that I feel are below what I believe we deserve, I do my best to avoid it or them. I am no better than anyone I am definitely not going to say that, but I am not going to waste any of my 24 hour days on things that will keep me and my family down. A promise that I have made to myself is to always continue to move forward, no matter what. In moving forward, there is no room for anything that is substandard.

3 Comments Add yours

  1. Dwane says:

    I love it!!! It is so much about what we choose to accept.
    We are in control of what we accept.
    Awesome!!

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Abhijith Padmakumar says:

    Awesome post and a great read. I just loved it so much !!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. dgsunshyne91 says:

      Thank you so much!

      Liked by 1 person

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